Suffice to say we're on here for the same reasons. Different journeys but same destination. We didn't find the one or couldn't stomach one more disappointing date. Like you. This is my last resort before packing it in and becoming a spinster!!! Perspective though, is that I don't give up easily and many things that are worth having doesn't come easy (hint:I'm not easy). What attracts me to another soul is intellect and the ability to challenge my views without being overly aggressive. Witty banter...sure, why not but most of all a great conversation covering a wide range of topics is definitely a game changer for me, and if you're well traveled with an accent...DEFINITE bonus points!