I consider myself, polite, educated, down to earth person , who likes things for others, which I would like for myself, too. There is a old saying " there are two types of morals......one which we practice and the one we all just preach only". Every person in this world has the right to be happy. But, happiness comes to you when you make other people happy. I can write paragraphs here, but I would say the nest thing is to talk on phone or meet in person to find out , if there is a chemistry.