Here I go again. If it seems confusing, it is. Apparently someone did not agree with what I had to say on MY PROFILE and had it deleted. Well, here I go again. I am 40, college educated, fit, beautiful inside and out, with long natural hair (no weave or extensions). My hobbies range from reading, cooking, working out, playing volleyball to swimming, visiting museums and cultural events - the list goes on. I am in search of that one man, who is content with just one woman, who prefers longterm and meaningful over the quick thrill. I am getting too old for the "fly by night", "club hoppers","haven't found myself yet", "need the attention of many women to feed my ego", "still have to hang with the boys" kinda guy. You get the idea. Race and age not a factor as long as you are mature and comprehend what I am looking for. Please be drug and disease free. I am actually fun to be around and far from stuck up. The ad might sound harsh. I am just tired of the "let-downs". Look forward to hearing from you - otherwise good luck in your search. Disclaimer (to save us both time)- Please don't take it personal if I don't reply. It simply means I don't find us to be a match- If you are posted up next to cars and homes, which are not yours, in attempt to portray a certain lifestyle, please bypass me. I don't care what your networth is. I am trying to get to know YOU...the REAL YOU. Also profiles with no pictures, missing intro and an abundance of shirtless "selfies" will be ignored.