The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails. -William Arthur WardI live by these words of wisdom for I am a realist. I really wish they had a better options to choose besides "casual dating" and "no commitment" or "I want a relationship" I would much rather it just be blank. The possibilities of being on this site cover a large spectrum from being just friends to having a committed relationship. I would rather not be bias to one way or the other! I am a very busy man and have little or no time during the week balancing my career with my other life duties. However I am a weekend warrior! I recently quit drinking and would rather not go out to a bar or go party. I am looking for more stimulating activities to enjoy the company of others. Plus the fact I don't ever want to be hung over again lol Anyway if you are interested please don't be shy, I reply to everybody out of respect and I am excited to see what comes out of this!