I am 31 .. currently going through a.divorce... no kids... i like to spend.time with friends and family and I am not the type of girl that is looking for sex on the first date. If you cant be a man.. then u need not speak to me. I. Dont like drama.. or guys who act like a child. I have no tolerance for ignorance and i have no filter... i will tell u about yourself if you cant act right. I smoke.. so if u dont like that.. then im sorry.. im looking for someone who is genuine.. who i.can get to know and who doesnt make me feel pressured to do anything i am uncomfortable with. If you want to know more... u should ask..