I am a very seperated woman. Not a girl. We are all grown up here so act like it. I have SLE, that effects my kidneys. I do not let it define who i am. I have a big heart, but dont mistake my kindness for weakness. Im looking for a Man that can treat someone with honesty and integrity. Im only writing this again because grown men get upset and report me because im not willing to b a booty call, fwb or dtf. Im very petite, so a guy that has had his belly up to a bar for the last few years and it shows really does nothing for me.