POF!! What a sight. I love meeting new people and getting to know women, even if things never get any further than just talking on phone... that feeling you get that when you are talking with someone new, thinking, is this girl the one. That is the feeling I want to feel. The chance of falling in love, is what keeps me coming back to this site. I quit POF and feel it's an illusion. That women do not want a relationship, like they say they do, but i keep coming back and try again and again. I have faith in the system of online dating i just havent met the right one yet. I guess I could meet girls in bars, but its always the same old scene. I just don't have enough time in my life to go out and waste money in bars so I'm hoping this site works for me.