I am partially retired, soon to be fully retired. I threw myself into work and now I am ready to throw myself into something (someone) else. I have been single for several years but find my life has made room for relationship again. I am self sufficient, not looking for anyone to take care of me. I'd like to find a companion who is self sufficient, has a sense of humor, a sense of adventure, and I'd like very much for him to be kind. I am a good cook. I like to sip coffee on the porch. We don't have to be twins, differences add flavor! I like water, by the ocean, by the lake, poolside and I can even find appreciation for a puddle. I enjoy the outdoors, and the sunshine. I am not sure what to expect or what to do on this site but I will figure it out.