Having been off and on here now for over 2 years... I have seen it all.I have written well thought out profiles explaining in detail what I am looking for and who I am. It did not work so I am taking a different approach this time. I am still looking for that man who will be honest and who has integrity and honor. UnfortunatelyI have found that in short supply in the time I have re-entered the dating world. He also needs to be wanting an actual..real life long term relationship. I do not want "friends with benefits" which seems to be what most of the men who have contacted me are looking for. I am looking for a man who wants to build a life and grow old with someone. I want nothing less.I don't have much but what I do have I work hard for and make my own way for me and my kids. I am proud of that. I have a heart that is way to full of trust so it seems I can be taken advantage of a bit too easily by some but I refuse to let it break me. I am a Christian and it is important that a man I amwith is as well. I work out several times a week and I am in the best shape of my life. I am often told I do not look my age. I read every single day. I do not need much in material things. The things I want are the non-material....love, happiness, and contentment. I am tired of going thru life alone. People are always telling me "You are so sweet and You are so pretty...you should have no trouble finding a man" Guess what? I am having a hellacious time finding a genuine, honest, non-broken man who wants what I want in life.I will answer any questions and tell you more about me if you ask. I think this go around I am just going to stop it here. Contact me if you want to know more.