I'm 50 y/o, 6 foot tall, so I'm looking for a tall guy. I've got a few extra pounds (workin on it, but still look ok). Don't mind an average guy with a few extra pounds. But he's gotta be tall... In my early days I was a bit of a thrill seeker. But now I'm a bit more laid back. I'm still a tomboy. I enjoy riding my motorcyle; I ride a Honda Magna - don't belong to a motorcyle club right now. Needless to say an adventurer still, but enjoy chillin with friends/family moreso. My favorite things to do are: a day at the beach with my friends (actually as many days as possible), sitting around campfire (with our wine getting silly), riding to biker events and socializing, chillin with a movie, morning bicycle ride (especially at beach - but not too early, I like sleeping in). I enjoy a nice dinner out maybe once a week, chinese takeout occasionally, I cook (but not often), read romance novels and mysteries. My NY's resolutions or ongoing goals are usually related to building my inner peace. I'm very independent, only want a man in my life for including in the fun, adding some adventure, romantic dinners/dates, intimacy. Someone with high self-esteem and a giver disposition (don't want any controlling type personalities or drama). I am attracted to a rugged type guy, jeans and t-shirt type (but can cleanup appropriately for occasions), kind hearted, interesting to talk to (a social guy, not shy) - the more outgoing the better. I like casual conversation vs intellectual. I like the rugged look of Sam Elliott in the cowboy movies. I quit smoking recently, so don't want a smoker. I'm not really big on the on-line dating thing but thought what the heck can't hurt I guess. No married men, please!