I am 3 years out from the divorce and learning how to be alone. I think I get that, it is lonely. I have 2 large dogs that make be feel safe in my house and walking on my property. I have too many horses, and hope to start downsizing. My 3 kids are the pride of my life. All accomplished and away to college. I love to cook and try new recipes and cuisines. I love a nice glass of wine to complement the food and conversation. I like movies, travel, beaches, swimming, fishing, I would like to find an intelligent man who is able to challenge me in conversation, review the news of the day, ask me about my day. Someone who I can look forward to spending time with, plan excursions, travel. I would like to see Greece, Bonaire, Belize, more of the mainland and to look for a special place to set as a goal to retire to I like photography, usually just taking so many photos that one has to be great. This usually works out. Thus when I travel I may be looking for some off the usual path to get the unique photo. I like to go fishing, but I like to cook and eat fish more. I like middle of the road music. No rap, hard rock, religious. But I like finding new music I can enjoy. Mostly, I set my ipod and dance around doing chores.