Hey guys, I am just coming out of a marriage that lasted over 10 years, so I am not looking to jump right back into a long term commitment... Or any commitment for that matter. I am really just looking for a friend first and then we can go from there. Unless you're prepared to take it really slow and build a friendship with me first, I would say keep on fishing. I have two kids and I take care of them just fine without any help, so I am not looking for someone to take care of me. What I am looking for is a patient and understanding man who is honest and treats me like a lady. Other than that, I am not really picky.