Been here before. Had zero luck. Some say I'm picky, I say I know what I want and refuse to settle. Let's see if you can live up to the headline and entice me. I am going to just throw a little bit of me out there and if you like what you read, you know what to do. If you don't like what you read, please don't waste either of our time and best of luck :)I am an independent, hard working Mother who loves her career and loves to enjoy every minute of life when I'm not working. I respect and value my mind, body and spirit, so I don't want anyone stealing any of them. I'm ambitious and slightly sarcastic. I love to laugh and not spend time focusing on petty stuff in life. I'm grateful for what I have and work towards what I want. I have goals and dreams and am looking to find the same in someone. I want to date someone, not hook up because you think I'm hot or vice versa. Looks are there. It's the core values and who you are that I am most interested in. I'm not shallow, but looks are important and so is how you view your health. I am into the gym and yoga and outdoor activities. I surf year round and I am also into volunteer work in a big way. I value my health and wellness and you should have enough respect for yourself to do the same. Don't get me wrong, I love nights on the couch with a good meal and TV, but I'm not couch potato. I already have one kid and certainly don't need another in the form of a man. If you think a good date is inviting me over to your Mom's house where you live in the basement, after I pick you up because you have no car, and I pay for take out pizza because you have no job, then you don't even need to waste your time messaging me. I have my stuff together, you should have yours. If you are a serial dater or a serial anything, please move along. I was raised in NH and know how to shoot guns...just saying.I really have no expectations for this site and I'm just seeing who is out there. I was going to say a little about myself, but apparently I wrote my first novel ;)