genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring. ~ Marilyn MonroeAfter a year on here…..ummm well….not sure what to say..Why am I here? I am on here for a while, then get off, then get back on thinking I may be missing something. Not sure what I'm saying, or not saying, is attracting the guy I don't need. I'm not a fan of bars unless with friends. I hate being hit on with "lines" that are so cliche they make my eyes roll…especially by the young ones who want one thing only.I am here because I miss having a best friend to lay my head down on at night, and sharing life.... they say being in love is an addiction and after almost two years without it, I am ready for it again.I am only capable of being the best person I can be on a daily basis. There is always improvement going on, I never stop at trying to better myself and my children through education and life experiences. I will make a fantastic friend and terrific lover to the right man.I know where I am in life, where I'm going and what type of person I want to share it with.I have 3 children. A boy (17) who is never here :/, girls (13 and 4), I know I don't need to say they are the most important beings in my life right? Should be a given. I'm working towards my bachelors in social psychology (social work) then hopefully a masters, if finances allow.I have 5 rescued pets (2 dogs and 3 cats), so if you don't like animals then I'm sorry, I will not like you.I love all music except most country and hardcore rap or rock. My collection ranges from Elvis, Led Zeppelin, Phish, Genesis, Nirvana, Sublime to Classical music, 90's rap, "house music", Frank Sinatra and Spanish guitar and much more. I can draw and love art. I have tattoos and want one more big one then I'm done.With my degree I plan to be a little piece of the bigger society that is going to change this word for the better! I want to travel a lot in my future and have an impact on the places that need it most.I am easy going and most of my best friends were guys growing up. I had and have 2 great friends that are women. I just could never get down with the cattiness the girls showed and gossip they shared. Not me, I'm really down to earth and real. Humble and carefree. So drama free that some of you may consider me very unusual.Please be educated, funny, attractive, humble, be able to converse, spiritual and just a true joy to be around without overdoing it. Please don't be a narcissist with no empathetic feelings towards others. I know I may sound particular, but I have been online on and off for a year. It is almost like a full time job getting to know someone. So if I use my time, I like to use it wisely. A man who can make me laugh and is smart can find the way to my heart.Have a pleasant day or evening and good luck to all of you genuine people out there!!!