I'm a very free spirited and independent person. I live life my way and fight for what i want, nothing and no one can ever hold me back. I'm a very outspoken person, I say whats on my mind. I'm also a very strong minded person, i wont do anything i don't want to. if you know me you know I'm a very kind person i love to give to others and i don't expect anything in return!. I'm very family oriented. i have few friends because i choose to and i like it that way, I find the ones worth holding on to and stick with them. I'm hopeless and romantic i love the idea of falling in love!. I try to live everyday like it is my last because you never know if tomorrow is coming, I don't have regrets because its not worth dwelling on the past you can't change it so move on and look forward. I don't make plans, It never ends up working out anyways so why waste time?! I do spur of the moment (more fun)... im spontaneous and hardworking. I am looking for a man that is easy going, caring, loves walks on the beach, and loves to travel. I am looking for friends first then maybe more. I am looking a good friend. My ideal match would be someone who enjoys just being them self and no pretense....i dont smoke, i drink once in while maybe party, am single mom, i have one son, am widow for 1 year.....am currently in Virginia...