It's a little tough to judge a book by its cover. Realizing people put their best foot forward when compiling a profile takes the confusion to another level. For me it's more important who I am with than what we are doing. I'm easy going, honest, straight forward. Looking for the same in a partner. I have a 30 year old Daughter who I raised alone from age 4 to 19. (This should answer some of your questions or doubts). I'm not looking for a pin-up girl or someone who feels she has to jump from planes or spear big game in her 50's. I enjoy quiet nights at home together or with a few close friends or family rather than large hectic crowds (unless of course it's a day at Giants game). Texting is great but the phone is better. :) Music (concerts in small venues) is pleasure. SMOKING an occasional cigar if out by the BBQ with the boys is the extent of my smoking. Must not be allergic to cats! The Cats Stay! :) Thanks for looking!