- I work in IT- In my free time I like to go out to eat, bars or shoot pool.If you've made it this far, I hope the above is good enough because I really don't know what to say. The best advice I ever got was to just be yourself. So if someone told me to describe myself in couple of paragraphs or less so women could be attracted to me ... I'd probably tell them if a women liked me after only 500 words - she must be nuts! I'm not here to play games or date a bunch of girls, that kind of stuff doesn't make me feel good.