So your here.. Good i've been waiting for you.. i know it was not easy finding me but hey good job on not giving up.. it's been a long wait for me too.. In case you are wondering what is in store, let me share with you...Iam the one who starts each day giving God thanks for the life i have, my family, friends, and knowing that his love for me is unending.. it gives me great joy to let him know how much i appreciate him everyday. Each weekday i spend working a full time job and I like my work.. due to some who are kind of odd i am not going to share much more other then it gives me great pleasure to know my work helps so many others in needWhen I am off work I will go to the gym and enjoy doing water areobics, zumba, cycle pump, and of course hot tub and sauna. After a refreshing shower i spend my evenings enjoying cooking up a delicious meals that include various ethnic cusine. My favorite, yes, seafood.. love to have baked salmon, talipa, or cod. and shell fish.. ooo ya.. crab, lobster, and shrip.. super yummy! In the evening snuggle down and read a good book, watch a movie, play a card game or board game. As the evening wears on lets get cozy near a warm fire, on the couch.. or a late night drive to no where. On my days off.. yep its time for me to kick up my heels and have some fun.. i like to go to local parks, museums, festivals, and love to see live bands, plays, or musicals. I enjoy singing playing guitar and piano. I am very active in my community and enjoy helping at local charity and events. My grand daughter will often visit me and she is an absolute delight.. This is not an easy task finding that special someone.. for me, this is what I want.. if your here to just play games.. sorry im not interested.. are you controlling, condensending, or rude.. keep moving.. do you feel you need to be loud or authoritative in your tone? .. not for me.. Are you looking for a new mommy or sugar mama.. Good luck with someone else.. What i do want..someone who is confidnet and caring.. able to give of himself for more than his own family or friends.. if he sees a stranger in need he does not have to be asked by me to help.. he does it cause his heart is for the love of others. He will work hard to provide for his family no matter how much he makes it is used to help care for those he is committed to. If he has extra it is used to help others and to provide enjoyment for us to do things together. I want him to know that each day he is appreicated and respected and in doing so he gives the same. Affection, compassion, passion, desire, intimacy, adoration, affirmation, and contiued growing love each day.. that is my expectation.