Do you know the song my headline based from? If so we are already off to a good start!Let me start off saying, I'm not a huge fan of these dating sites, but I'm giving it another shot, I want to meet someone other than in the bar scene. To find a relationship on here would be great, but only time will tell. My motto in life is to live in the moment and enjoy everyday, I'm enjoying life and hoping to find that person who can be my best friend and enjoy the ride with me. So about me ~I will admit I can be a bit shy at first, but once I get to know you, I will open up. I'm a laid back/go with the flow type of person, I love to laugh, like to have fun, I'm honest, caring, funny, quirky, confident, easy to get along with, family oriented, independent, ambitious and self driven. I'm the girl everyone goes to for advice; sweet but also the one you don't want to upset or lose my trust; the person you call when you need help, but I know when I'm being taken advantage of. What you see is what you get, I'm a straight forward and will not change who I am for anyone. For work I'm a bartender and also running my own business in graphic & website design. I have been in business for over 2 years and its been the best decision I have ever made. I have a crazy work schedule, but I also make time for friends and family and fun. Its taken me a while but I have learned to juggle the lifestyle I've chosen, but there is not a day that goes by I regret my decisions. I enjoy the simple things in life but sometimes its fun to enjoy the finer things too! A perfect night can be staying at home, watching a movie or reading a book (wine makes these nights nights better) or going to a local bar or restaurant and hanging out with friends. I like to be spontaneous - may it be a last minute decision to go out for the night or take a weekend road trip, try new experiences, go to new restaurants, wine & beer tastings , sporting events - Bears, Blackhawks, Cubs games, road trips, day trips to Chicago, the list could go on and on. My favorite season is Summer - Bonfires, BBQs, concerts, boating, and going to the beach or lake.