Well where to start? First and foremost. I am NOT 35. I'm 44. I only put that because of the way POF generates the matches. And NO! Not looking for a pup.I want what everyone else wants that is looking for a relationship. Chemistry, loyalty, communication, trust integrity and respect. Among other things. I am a very easy going open minded woman. Honest, respectful ( if deserved ) morally driven. treat others as I would want to be treated. A nurturer at heart ( almost to a fault) Very silly. Positive outlook and attitude. Love to laugh. And you have to be able to laugh at yourself at times.Brutally honest. I prefer the word candid. ;~)You will always know where my mind is at. What I'm not looking for is a friend with benefits, bottom feeders, players, catfish, shallow, self centered, users. And yes I could ad to the list but I'm sure you get the picture. I love live music, ( I own a beautiful acoustic) DIY projects, cooking, laughing, family, friends, entertaining, shopping, decorating, out doors, new places, new foods, learning new things. It does not take long for me to get bothered by this site and the majority of people on it. So my life expectancy in this pond is pretty short. If I'm not interested, I won't respond. Please don't take it personal. I don't mean to offend anyone.I just see no reason to lead on or waste your time or mine. There is a plan for everyone. And there is someone for everyone. So best of luck if you are truly looking for your soul mate!