Hmmm let's see looking for a long term ,maybe the last relationship of my life ..,I do most of the usual guy stuff ,fishing hiking ..I play drums and love cooking .(but tired of having no to cook for ) am a avid Stephen king fan and .loyal to my patriots .. like most music .but i'll pass on hard core rap and metal .basically a classic rock guy ...I'm told I 'm a good listener and a good friend honest and loyal as a puupy dog ....I don't serial date, if there's a connection I. like to follow it through to see what evolves,looking to feel comfortable ,at ease with some one just being me while you be you .I can be very romantic ,I 'm creative and passionate and try to bring that into all aspects of my life .I don't have the body of a Adonis or the income of a trump so if that's whats most important to ya .keep looking ,there's more to me but you'll have to ask, not looking for a long term online relationship .much rather hear your voice .so if your 'e not willing to meet with in a reasonable time ..don't bother ..lol what do I look for ?: it depends ..and it's complicated ofcoarse there's physical attraction ,but also inner beauty ,personality that compliments a great smile, a quick wit ..maybe even a little twisted sense of humor ,what I find attractive in one may not be the most attractive attribute of another and yet I may find them every bit as attractive, someone who understands that relationships can go through tough times but knows that if growth and a better understanding of self and each other can be obtained than it's all worthwhile... wish everyone all that their heart desires