This is a new thing for me...I have recently retired from the military. I am a student working towards a masters degree. i have 3 children but the baby is the only one still at home, she is 16. I like the outdoors, bbqs, getting together with friends.. love going to the beach, going on walks, cuddling up to a good movie. I am not into the bar scene at all. If you are into heavy drinking or drinking every day, you do drugs, smoke pot...keep right on going and if youre looking to get lucky your first date or any in the near future skip this profile. I have more self respect than that.And if you have a disease then please feel free to keep it to yourself and go on to the next profile that catches your eye cause Im not looking for anything like that. I do have an injury which if it gets to that point in our connection I will share with you. But there has to be a connection. I want a guy who knows how to treat a lady. Someone who is respectable and remembers how to hold a door open and holds your chair. Someone who has initiative. Who is sweet enough that when you get sick he brings the tissues and cough medicine and wants to take care of you. Someone to hold you through the hard times and laugh and play jokes in the good times. Someone who wants a lady to cook for him and serve him supper. Who looks forward to the moment he walks through the door. That when youre in a room together he is only interested in you and doesnt notice anyone else.