I'm so active, it's amazing. I grocery shop, clean the bathroom, I can sort the laundry...lights and darks (you're speechless I know) I vacuum , dust, AND start the dishwasher!!! As for the great outdoors...I get the mail, take out the trash, pick up the dog poop, and mow the lawn when the neighbors start to point and whisper. I work. I'm not a vegan ,I don't do Pilates, Tai- Chi or Yoga. I don't like yoga pants, and contrary to popular belief, a camel toe is neither sexy, nor comfortable. I swim, hike, walk and snow shoe. I sweat . You probably won't find me strolling the beach, eating a veggie-burger whilst gazing longingly at the horizon, searching for my soulmate. However , I probably will be in the ER wiping vomit off of my scrubs.... living the dream.