Caring, affectionate, passionate, tenacious (about the right things). To have an impact on someone's life is an incredible gift and responsiblity (be it family, loved ones, friends, etc.) I also believe (unlike most) that one can change for the better. I strive for that goal and while the past is a good history lesson, it is still in the rear view mirror and does not define one totally or their future. I have learned hard lessons from failures that i use to mold me into a better person. I am a believer in the Word and have refocused myself in that area recently. I am athletic and toned. I workout at least 5 times a week by lifting, riding my bike or whatever., . I am ATTRACTED to someone that does the same and has it for a healthy lifestyle (I think many skip this part). Yes, I was the class clown in high school and not much has changed. A woman I find attractive keeps herself in shape mentally, spiritually and physically (but not to a vain sense). She cares about her looks and style but understands attraction goes beyond that to who she is as a person as well as the outer layers. In my eyes, she would radiate a sense of beauty and elegance without being conceited. I enjoy light hearted banter, playful, affectionate and concerning herself with the person she is with and not with the activity that is going on. She communicates well and realizes that guiding me and not expecting me to read her mind doesn't make me insensitive but knows my focus is to understand, learn and connect.