A mother's masterpiece are her children. Mine are the reason I get up everyday. Attraction is key for me and part of that attraction is that a man understands children, knows how to be a parent and can handle being around them.I am busy at this point in my life because I work two part time jobs and go to school at Brockport. I've basically been single since my divorce in 2011 and I'm ready to find someone that can fill the missing piece. I lived in NC for 8 1/2 years because of the military and moved back to NY last August. I'm kind of regretting it because I miss the beach and warm weather, but I'm here until I finish my degree.