I never know what to say on these types of things. I'm funny (at least I think I am), but not like, comedian funny, outgoing, confident, kind, honest, responsible, playful, supportive, very much a lady, and fun to be with (if I do say so myself). I try to do my best every day, and I hold myself accountable for my own errors in judgment.What am I looking for? I'm not really sure. I can't say that I am "looking" for anything in particular because that might imply that I have an agenda of some kind; I don't by the way. I supposed that I am curious as to whether I will ever find another "Tony". He was the love of my life, and although we never had the chance to explore what that would have meant for us both (he died of cancer in Oct 2012), he was my best friend, my confidant, my everything. I am curious if it could happen twice.So, to better answer the above question, perhaps I should include what I am not looking for: 1) First and foremost, I am not looking for someone who is wanted by the authorities. I say this because it can and has happened. 2) Someone who is not willing to post a picture. 3) Someone who bolsters his online image (using pictures that are 20 years old) to get a meet and greet. 4) Anyone who has served in Special Operations, Rangers, or Delta Force--sorry fellas, I am ex-military and I have been down that road, I love you guys, thank you for your service, but, really, you are not my cup of tea.