Hi and thank you for stopping to take a look at my profile.I am at a time in my life where I want to find someone that can share the rest of my life with. I have raised my kids and I am ready for the next chapter.I am not interested in a fling , I am looking for my special someone. ...This man will love me for me, as I will him. I will feel special and beautiful when he looks at me, and I will know I am a priority in his life. I want to be his friend, confidant, lover, I want to be a that person he can turn to when the world has been hard. I want a man that is strong enough to handle life's trials, and gentle enough to cuddle and allow to be pampered .I am originally from California , born and raised. I moved to Oklahoma in 2012 and really love the area. I have 4 grown kids, all out and doing their own thing except one. She is completing her degree and lives here in Oklahoma with me.I have been told I am a nurturer , a giver.. and I guess I would have to agree. I love taking care of those close to me. I have a bleeding heart for those less fortunate and will go out of my way to help someone who is hurting.I love to travel, whether it is a day road trip or a flight somewhere. I must say I haven't done very much of it yet.. but its on my list!Family time is huge for me.. like I said before I love taking care of those closest to me.. Cooking for them, cleaning up or being nurse maid if they are ill.I love to laugh and sometimes I feel I laugh at the strangest times and things. But humor is great for healing and I think everyone should have a great laugh at least once a day, or two, or three..:)I like all types of music except rap. Oldies, 80/90's , folk, acoustic, Christian contemporary, current artists .