This is the hard part ... Making yourself standout in a crowd of thousands. Here goes!I'm just as comfortable in four inch heels and a little black dress as I am in flip flops and jeans. In other words, I'm comfortable with who I am, and he is equally secure in his own skin.I'm not only a woman, but I'm also a girl ... and he'll understand the difference and appreciate both. He also totally gets that I have an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other ... and that it's a constant battle on which one wins out. I want to feed off his energy and he'll want to feed off mine. Ideally our individual strengths will balance out our individual weaknesses.He'll understand the high I get feeling the wind in my face when I'm riding on the open road on my Harley; or finding my groove rocking to my I-Pod while running a few miles; or the intoxicating thrill of seeing the sights of a new place for the first time; or the shear pleasure of curling up on the sofa with a bowl of popcorn.He wants to see a sunset through my eyes: The comforting warmth of a sweet embrace, stilling my heart, and causing my breath to hold for the slightest of moments as the wonderment of the beauty of it leaves me breathless ... And he wants to feel a sunrise through my touch: A shimmering gold disk that warms my skin and lights up my heart as it drips with the gift of possibility and hope.I like to be connected to him ... nothing clingy, but an unsolicited text message "just because" will put a smile on my face every time!He has a good sense of humor and likes to laugh ... often. And he likes to make me laugh ... especially when he senses I really need to laugh.At this stage, we all come with baggage. I'll carry mine and he'll carry his. But we'll both just as happily take some of the weight from the other's load when we can sense it's getting too heavy. I won’t judge you your past because I don’t want my past judged. Because our pasts are what make us unique. I believe in ... and so should he ... second chances ... given and received.He'll start out as a friend and if the planets are aligned, it will naturally transition to the next level. And we'll both thoroughly enjoy the ride.Side note: Confidence and intelligence are extremely hot and sexy. He has to “Know How To Read” (I’ll explain over coffee).Oh ... and if he rides a motorcycle, he gets extra bonus points! Make it a Harley and not only do the points triple, but he just made my heart skip a beat!!! Because … riding my Harley is a passion. He won’t want me giving up my passions any more than I want him to give up his. ”I'm probably not going to respond if you don't have a picture. Nothing personal ... but I believe in even playing fields.