I love my job, my family...and Im a happy person. Im not on here to feed my ego, to check out profiles or for fun. If I wanted to do something fun it woldnt be cruizing profiles on a dating website. I kind of feel belittled that Im on here in the first palce, but its a lot eaiser to find someone when You have a full schedule with responsibilitites. I understand that this can be uncomfortable meeting someone...espically the first time. But Im not into 1000 emails without talking on the phone. After a few conversations on the phone.....if your not willing to meet Ill probably stop talking to you. I understand that its different for women and being cautious is the best way to go with all the frikkin weirdos on here....and I respect that. That doesnt change my position. Anyone who isnt secure enough with themselves to present themselves in person probably has self esteem issues and I dont want that. What I do want...A great sense of humor. I dont mind kids as long as its from the same father. Girls with several "babies daddies" please dont contact me. I want a woman who is emotionall and physically happy and healthy. I work out a lot and DO NOT want to talk to anyone who isnt in good physical shape.If you are a recovering alcoholic, current extensive drug user, jobless or dont like spontaneous fun, if you are a planner with everything you do, an introverted unimaginative woman who watches hours of tv a day.....keep on walking. I dont like playing games..if you say "Sure give me a call!!!" and for whatever reason you cant answer...I expect a call back. Its very uncomfrtable to have someone ask you to call them...then never hear back. If that sounds like something you do.....try it with someone else. Calling someone you dont know and striking up stimulating conversation can be hard enough to get the nerve to do.