It is the little moments I live for. I remember my Father driving me to the airport after high school graduation. I wasn't sure what I wanted to study in college so he was sending me to Europe to study life. I thought, "I need a camera"! He said, "every important moment in your life you will remember without a photo". No truer words have ever been spoken. If I close my eyes and focus on the visuals, the sounds, the smells, the tastes, all of it; I am transformed. I can be taken back to any moment in my life without a picture. I have been so blessed to have so many of those- good and bad. You cannot know what is good without knowing the bad or there wouldn't be a spectrum on difference. Having dated before I do get the typical, "why are YOU on this website" questions. I would have to say my first response is the usual, "why are YOU'? I could give the usual psycho-social babble and say we are all seeking human interaction and in today's over communicative forms of social media we actually lack the necessary skills and abilities to connect with another human being due to said media. Blah! I did actually ask my Catholic high school boyfriend to give me some adjectives to describe me. He said, "wicked sense of humor, nurturing, independent, spiritual and community focused". He's known me for over twenty years and is objective so I'll take it. I am an alpha female and I need an alpha male. I don't need nor do I seek a shallow individual. I am intelligent, witty, sexy, confident, educated, healthy and I've lived a little life. I want a man who can walk by my side and be my equal. My time is valuable and I don't have pockets of it I have to fill. I want to WANT to fill my time with you.