I have a great sense of humor and am easy going. Life is short, so I do my best to enjoy every minute. I love tats and piercings, though I don't have my own. I have a drama-free life, and a lot of freedom to explore a romantic connection.It can be difficult to distinguish between those that date inter-racially and those that don't. If you are looking for a booty call, or have ' hooking up with my first black chick' as one of you New Years resolutions, I am probably not the girl for you. I am very confident in who I am and what I want. I have had some serious misrepresentation issues while on my search for romance, and I'm tempted to give up, but something keeps telling me to hang in there a little longer, so here I am. Dating has proven to be an adventure to say the least. I am about 5'9 and attractive and would love to meet someone taller than I am in heels or O.K. with me being really tall in heels. I have often been described as a fun, outgoing,loyal chick, with a good head on my shoulders. I love great conversations with people who have something to say, no judgments on my part. I like tats, piercings, (though I personally am too chicken to have my own).I have been blessed with great kids and no drama. If you are an independent man that is looking for a lover and partner, not a mommy I'd love to hear from you. I am a light smoker and drink socially. I am involved in spiritual and metaphysical activities, but will not beat you over the head with my views.