"the one important thing I've learned over the years is the difference between taking one's work seriously and one's self seriously, one is imperative..the other is disastrous." Please take the time out to read this before messaging me if you can... It could potentially save us both time :Dwriting these things are sort of tough... I never know if I wrote too much or didn't write enough "/ buuuut here goes: this is actually my second page on pof, I had one some months ago but deleted it after a few weeks... I believe the attempt might just have been premature but I could have just been being scary as we'll...don't know. Anyhow, I work and go to school and I am the unbelievably proud mother of one beautiful little person :):) I truly enjoy what some folks would call the "simple" things in life. I am laid back, very down to earth, I love anything that has live energy within it liiike art of all kinds, nature, music ect. I shy away from people with rude behavior but aside from that I'm not judgmental, I do not discriminate based on "looks" or "body type," or even age! for a young lady like myself, what makes a man is how big his heart is and what he does with his mind.BUT!!! If you are an older man that is just try a get into the pants of some pyt keep it moving. (Respectfully of course) that really goes for anyone though. I have nothing against anyone who is just looking for a good time, and even though I do not see a rush to commitment I do firmly believe in still dating with a purpose. I've been single for a few years, choosing to focus on myself and being a mother, but as my kid gets older it is allotting me more free time for myself so I thought now would be as good of a time as any tooooo, let's say dip my toe in and seeing what's out there before I get my feet wet. I'm not looking for anyone to be a father to my child... They already have a good one. SO! now that I've gotten the fundamentals out the way lol feel free to hit me up if you'd like to know more! peaaace :)