I am optimist with a big heart. My children & dogs are very important to me. I retired at 39 years old from being a dog behaviorist & police dog trainer. I loved my job & worked a lot. After my divorce, I realized how precious time is. I liquidated my assets & now I have time to smell the roses. Currently, I am looking for friendship hopefully leading to a long-term relationship. My ideal match would consist of someone who was honest, sincere & has a passion for living. He would express his love for me the way I would for him. He would be educated, well-mannered, have common sense & a good sense of humor together we would be able to express our emotions & openly communicate with each other. We would never go to bed without saying I love you. Someone that would love me the way I am although, I am not opposed for changing for the better. I appreciate the numerous winks & emails by the outstanding available men that I have received. However, I am looking for "my spark" the one that radiates throughout our entire relationship. I am very motivated to find this individual. I have met him before & I know his style. I will stand for nothingness. He is my utopia & I will be his. Do not be offended if I do not respond back. I wish you the best of luck with your quest.