My story, oh my! Isn't that what meeting up and having coffee, a picnic or a walk is all about? I'm intelligent, educated, very self-sufficient (which I find many, if not most, men seem to *think* they like, but they really don't - I find most men actually want a woman to be dependent on them or needy, and that's not me). My idea of a good relationship is where both parties WANT to be together and learn and grow, but not that they "complete" each other or they're not whole without someone. I'm not really looking for anything too serious, but it would be awesome to make that kind of connection. In the meantime, it would be nice to have more friends to hang out with - especially during the week when most of my friends are working. I like going to the beach, snorkeling, laying while reading or even napping on the beach, bbq’ing with cold beer, watching the sunset with some nice tunes on. I love going down Waipio or up Mauna Kea. I’m getting in better shape to do some of the fun hikes around like Pololu and beyond to the third valley back – good times. So many fun things to do outside here – it’s endless really. And I also love lazing around sometimes, too. But mostly I’m a Doer, I like to get things done; makes me feel good. It’s even better when I can find someone who likes to do things together, whether it’s working on my car or your or refinishing a piece of furniture or working out together, or figuring out new ways to create income, etc, etc. My mind is always active on these things.In some ways, none of us are unique really - we just have to appreciate how much alike we really are and not let that scare us away.In other ways, we are nothing at all alike. ;)I've been blessed with an ability to spot inconsistencies everywhere - they bother me. There's something dishonest about inconsistencies; or they reveal something dishonest. My best friends know to just be straight up with me. It's best that way. I am as straight up as I can be, too. Sometimes, maybe too straight up, but you're free to let me know when I should back off. I'm still learning.I absolutely adore music and the arts of all kinds really. Peace is probably my number 1 goal on earth. Lots of peaceful, easy feelings. There's enough real drama without people out there creating it just for the sake of creating it. Yuck!I love being by, on and in the ocean. Very grounding for me. So is gardening. Sometimes cleaning, too. And working out.