My look on life is this "Don't look for someone who will solve all your problems; look for someone who will face them with you. I hate when someone tries to judge you only from maybe one or two conversations on the phone they think they figured you out LOL. I love someone who is willing to work with me as a team I am single no kids, now just because I have none doesn't mean I don't like them I love kids it was my choice that's all not to have any. I love to work out so I do want someone who does work out look you don't have to be a PERFECT shape, but at least have a nice body I don't mind a little thickness, but shapely is GREAT! also you can't change everything in one night, but one night can change everything, meaning I don't do one night stands and I don't believe just cause you invite me over or I invite you over don't mean its GO TIME.....LOL. What I am begging to see more and more is that sisters are still connected with their EX it could be from having their phones in their name to having a car in their name I really want someone who have their own thing going that's very important to me. I don't smoke or drink at all love great places to eat I always take a drive out of Maryland every chance I get also I have my own business as we talk I can tell you what it is that I do, love really good music from hip hop to pop and r&b to whatever sounds amazing. What makes me different from any man here, I think is that I love to love and courtship very important and its missing these days, but sisters who are under 30 don't understand it and those over 40 forgot how to allow a man to court them so I wont give you my entire life story I want to see what can happen am I even worth your time or most important are you worth mine so lets see what we can do as a team thank you for taking time reading my profile when there are millions here I am truly grateful.